So, you want to learn how to get better at sex? You want to become a mind-blowing orgasm delivery person who's simply irresistible? Bang! has got some tips for you! Simple stuff you may have overlooked, but don't be fooled, because these 5 sensible tips will help you bring your A-game to Poundtown.
Manage your sexual expectations with your partner
Managing sexual expectations with your partner is very important for having a good relationship in general, and awesome sex too! Here's how to do that. First off, make sure you're both on the same page, it's important to talk it out and recognize your and your partner's desires- what you like, don't like, and are willing to try. For example, maybe full on anal is a hard no for your hunny right now, but she's willing to play around with stretching and toys. Figure out what you'd both like to experience and what makes you feel good! With this knowledge in hand, you can then focus on intimacy. If you focus on building an intimate connection, it'll make the whole experience better from start to finish. Sex isn't just about penetration and cumming! Which leads us into our next point...
Throw in some dirty talk
Have some fun with it! Like we said, sex is more than just P-in-V (or the hole(s) of your choosing), to be better at sex, you need to treat it like a start to finish sensory experience. Something you can see, hear, feel, and taste. Focusing on the hearing part, dirty talk is a great way to immerse you and your partner during sex. Again, have your boundaries and expectations clear (remember, some girls may be really into being called sluts and whores during naughty time, some may not) and tell her all about what you'd love to do to her and how hot she is! Dirty talk takes the whole experience to another level, so speak your mind!
Get creative with it!
Sure, missionary can be cool, but why stop there? There's a whole world of sexual positions, environments, toys, and different ways out there to get creative and spice things up in the bedroom. If you need inspiration, Bang!'s got you. We have a huge library of videos that explore all different types of scenarios and kinks, so take a look! Maybe you want to experiment with oil like Gianna Dior does in her Surprise scene, maybe you want to throw in a leash and collar and get kinky like Celestina Blooms, or maybe you're into some roleplaying. The sky is the limit! So whatever your heart desires, look around on Bang! for it. You might really love what you find.
Always communicate
This is similar to managing your sexual expectations, but it's important to speak up during the act too! A little "harder", "deeper", "right there" can take pleasure to new heights, but listen for the "can we switch positions?" or "not too rough"'s as well. Communication during sex ensures that both parties are getting what they want, and everybody feels good- it's a team sport!
Don't be afraid to laugh!
Why take yourself so seriously? Sure, we all want to fuck like pornstars. But porn is for the pros, in real life things will rarely be as picture perfect. And that's okay! Honestly, even during porn shoots the actors will giggle sometimes. It's natural! That realness is what makes having sex feel so intimate and enjoyable. So don't shy away from it, don't be afraid to laugh and have fun during sex. I mean, yeah, don't randomly bust out laughing when she takes her top off, but you get it. Humor can be found everywhere, and the bedroom is not exception. If something's actually funny, there is nothing wrong in cracking up about it with your partner! This will also form a stronger connection between you two and make the bangin' even better.
So there you have it, 5 simple tips to help you get better at sex. Use these, and you'll be leveling up your fucking game in no time. Remember to talk about and respect sexual expectations with your partner, talk dirty to them, get creative, communicate, and don't be afraid to laugh! And remember, if you're a visual learner, you can always get to studying right here on Bang.com!