We all love some good head! Both an act of foreplay and a fun addition to any sex life, giving and receiving oral sex is fun. It brings sex to a more personal level, lets you flex your mouth muscles, and overall feels really, really good. If you’ve ever wanted to level up your head game, here are some tips from pornstars to help you give the best oral ever!
Understanding the anatomy and sensitivity of the male and female genital organs
Whether you’re going down on a dick or pussy, it’s worth noting that (obviously) those are extremely sensitive areas. The penis has over 4,000 nerve endings, and the clit comes in with over 10,000! Wowza!
Giving and receiving oral sex: A complete guide
So we know that genitals are extremely sensitive, but let's find out how to really get them going! But hey, don’t JUST take our advice. We went through our Twitter feed to see what the pros are doing...
Use your hands (or don’t!)
In this tweet from October, Keira Croft declares that one handed AND no handed blowjobs are her specialty. She for sure demonstrates this specialty in her Real Teens scene, but I digress. It’s obvious that Keira knows how to spice it up when giving head, and if you want to take a page out of her book, get handsy with it… or don’t! Hand action is an addition to a good blowjob, not necessarily a must! If you’re working on some lady parts, the same rule applies. You might be tempted to get down there and finger away while you’re sucking her clit, but don’t worry so much about it! As long as your tongue is pulling most of the weight, remember that hands are just a nice bonus. It is called oral sex, after all!
Get sloppy with it
Our September 2023 Bang! Babe Madi Collins is a petite freak! She loves experimenting when it comes to sex, and one thing she’s found that she loves is sloppy blowjobs. Sloppy blowjobs increase lubrication and not only make it feel amazing, the spit makes it smoother for her to take on big cocks. If you’re sucking a dick anytime soon, take a note from Madi and get sloppy with it. It may be messy, but isn’t that the fun part?
Venture outside (if you dare)
Emma Hix has shot for Bang! a few times, and we consider her very knowledgeable in the realm of giving head. In her tweet from last May, she shows off her skills for her site, and states, “It’s not a vacation without a public patio blowjob 💦😅” This brings up a good point, that blowjobs in public or semi-public places can actually be a great way to mix things up, and bring a new sense of adventure to your oral sex! If you’re feeling frisky, maybe venture outside in the pursuit of oral pleasure!
We have other oral sex tips for you too! Some basics include:
Relax, enjoy the moment and don't rush it.
If you feel like oral is a chore, you won't have fun and neither will your partner! Oral sex is unique in the way that you are fully in control of giving your partner pleasure. That's a fantastic opportunity, so savor it... just like you're savoring other things...
Keep it wet!
Throwing it back to Madi Collins' recommendation for a sloppy blowjob, if you're giving head for a long time, things will dry out. It's natural! Combat that by making an effort to keep things slippery by spitting, sucking, and licking to your heart's content. Don't be afraid to switch it up either, if you get tired of having a dick or pussy in your mouth, you can always take breaks and switch it up by kissing (anywhere on their body... get creative), fingering, or sucking elsewhere...
Don't overthink it.
Go into giving oral with only the expectation that it should feel good for both you and your partner. If you're worried about doing it a certain way or overly focusing on trying to make your partner cum with your mouth, it won't be as enjoyable as if you just go with the flow. You're both here for a good time!
Enhancing the experience: Toys, lubricants and foreplay techniques
How to enhance the experience, you may ask? You can always use toys! Try using a dildo or vibrator on your hunny when you’re licking her for double the pleasure. Lubricants are not a necessity when giving oral, but if you’re trying to do some tongue in (ass) cheek anal play or need some numbing lube for the back of your throat, go for it. Lastly, remember that oral is a valuable foreplay technique, it doesn’t have to be the star of the show (although it can be!) it can just be a warm up for the main event.
So there you have it, some tips from Bang! (and Bang! pornstars) on how to give the best head ever. Go forth, go down, and enjoy it!