Hey, we've all got our kinks. Some of us want to get peed on, some of us want to get dominated. Here at Bang!, we pass no judgement. You do you and if you want to get into some bondage and roleplaying while filming it, hey, we've got you covered.
BDSM: noun – bondage, discipline (or domination), sadism, and masochism (as a type of sexual practice).
When it comes to BDSM though there are a lot of rules. Safe words. Likes and dislikes, etc. If you want to venture into this world it's all about communication, so let's just delve into it this kink world and see what you can do to make it the best experience you can and even film it so you can have some footage to whack off to later.
What Are Home Made Videos
As the name suggests, when making videos by yourself you're basically making a home video. Duh! There's no production, no amazing lighting, but you can step up your game and make it work if you want to. Most phones now shoot in 1080p if not even full 4k resolution, so you have yourself a decent camera once you start shooting. Then, get one of them circle lights even from Amazon and you can have a pretty great time filming your dirty-dirty and make it look alright.
Remember, just have fun with it.
What is BDSM?
The textbook definition of BDSM is "sexual activity involving such practices as the use of physical restraints, the granting and relinquishing of control, and the infliction of pain." So if you're venturing that way, it can be all or just some of these things.
It's basically a lot of tying up, so you can feel like an old school sailor. It can be the male or female being tied up, there could be some hanging involved, but when you're doing it, just make sure the other person is into everything. BDSM has a lot to do with consent so make sure everyone is on board, be it being tied up or spanked or any other form of restraining or dominating behavior.
Best Tips For Your First BDSM Homemade Video
Tying it all together from what we wrote above, making your first video will take a bit of time and planning. You and your partner first have to sit and talk about what you're going to do. It's not like a spontaneous hookup that you can quickly have.
You have to talk about exactly what you're going to do, who's getting tied up or restrained, what positions you're going to try out and how you're going to wrap up. Then once that's done, you set up your phone or camera to get the angles you want and you're off on your way.
Talk Dirty
Talking dirty is always fun, even if you're not trying BDSM, but it does go a long way since you're dominating someone anyway. Calling someone a slut or whore or whatever creative words you choose can really spice things up when you're in control and it works both ways. So, get creative and start calling out some words you'd otherwise never use. It's HOT!
Learn The "Ropes"
This is probably the most important thing about BDSM and also the most difficult and technical. So, when you're dabbling in this world, yeah, tying someone up is key, so you better know how to do more than bunny ears on your shoes. There are plenty of resources out there that will teach you how to do knots and believe us, there are hundreds of them and they're all different and serve different purposes.
So, before inviting someone over for a BDSM night, you better do your homework and make sure you know what you're doing. Otherwise you'll probably look pretty silly if your knots come undone while doing the nasty and it kills the whole vibe. So, once again, do some solo work at home, then go out and play!
