To jerk off or to not jerk off? Isn't that the age old question? In our younger years when we were still learning the sex ropes, we heard that if you wank before a date, you'll last longer, and some of that holds true. You're not going on a Tinder date with weeks of pent up ball juice which yes, in turn, might make you pop like a champagne cork at a 20 year old's bachelor party.
So let's explore why you might want to rub one out before or if it's detrimental to what you see as your final outcome. There is a bit of both physiology and psychology that come with it, so let's take a semi scientific approach to you touching yourself before your big performance.
Why should you?
The answer to that is simple. Desensitize yourself. Coming in with a loaded gun to a target party might make you shoot way too early, if you catch our drift. So if you rub one out a few hours beforehand, you might last longer because you're not on the verge of cumming just because your junk is rubbing against your pants. It makes sense.
But then we must warn you, there is no actual scientific proof of that, it's more of a case by case basis. Anecdotally however, it seems to work because of common sense. Looking back at your life have you ever wanted to come 20 minutes after you just came? Probably not, so in theory that will make the pounding last even longer.
Why Not?
Now here's the biggest hurdle; your age and/or health. Sure, you can be a 70 year old fuck machine, but that's not totally common. Statistically, if you're older it might take you anywhere from 24 to 48 hours to get your dick up and slamming again. So, if one was to rub one out before a date you might find yourself missing it, only to be asleep covered in comfy blankets watching re-runs of your favorite show becaues your dick is just not having it.
Then there's your health. We're not nutritionists, but if your biome is whack your dick won't stack, know what we mean? There are times where a good wank would make you last longer, but if you're eating shit food lately, for example, you might be in for a subpar performance and you don't want that. So slam some vitamins and make sure your system is in tip top shape in order to be able to go a few rounds.
Alternative Ways To Help You
If you want to take a more holistic approach to the whole lasting longer thing, you can do some exercises. They can be both physical or mental, and at the end of the day might make you the macho man you want to be.
For example:
- Communication: Open communication with your partner about your desires, boundaries, and expectations can help create a supportive and understanding environment that gets your dick hard but doesn't make you pop so soon.
- Pelvic Floor Exercises: Kegel exercises can strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, potentially assisting in better control over how fast you spill your seed.
- Breathing and Relaxation Techniques: Learning relaxation and deep-breathing techniques can help reduce anxiety and promote a more relaxed state while you fuck. You know, kind of mind over body thing.
- Experimentation and Variety: Trying different positions, pacing, and techniques while you fuck might help you last longer too. If you're a huge fan of doggystyle for example and it makes you go wild, turn your girl over for something that doesn't make your nuts go nuts.
At the end of the day, it's all about personal preference. Whether you give yourself a wank or not is up to you, but it's just important to know your won body. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't, so give it a whirl or two and find out for yourself. If anything, you're cumming either way so it's a win-win.
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