So you and your lady are ready to get yourselves get wet, like, really wet? Making a woman squirt can go either way, some do it almost every time by themselves, some need a little work and some think they can (or can't), but here at Bang! we believe everyone can squirt if you put in the time and the effort.
Discussing sexual techniques is a sensitive and private matter, and it's important to prioritize open and respectful communication with your partner. If you're interested in exploring different aspects of sexual intimacy, including female ejaculation or "squirting," it's essential to approach the topic with care and consent. Sometimes it just won't happen, so don't push it too hard and most of all, have fun exploring.
Here are some general guidelines for creating a comfortable and open environment and giving both partners the best chance of getting that awesome gush!
- Talk About It:
Before attempting to make your girl gush, talk about it. Did she ever do it before? Is she scared to do it? How much play is too much play? Making sure you're not too rough, or not rough enough. All these things come into play so just sit, talk and make it happen! - Set Up For Success:
Creating a comfortable and relaxed environment is crucial for exploring new sexual experiences. Do you want to do it at home? Hey, if you make it happen your bed (maybe even walls) might get a hosedown so be ready for this. Or maybe rent a cabin in the woods where only trees can hear the screams. All in all, make sure you're both comfortable. - Consent:
Consent is a fundamental aspect of any sexual activity. Ensure that both you and your partner are fully willing and enthusiastic about your first gusher, and if someone is not feeling it, just do it another time. It's all about being in the mood, baby. - Education:
Learn about the female anatomy and sexual responses. You can explore all our Bang! videos (honorable mention to Tiffany Watson) to see where, how and why it's done, but make sure how to properly finger a girl, how her body responds, where the clit and g-spots are (duh, that's most important) and anything else involving a max response. Some women like their nipples played with, some their toes, some neither, so know what buttons to press! - Foreplay:
Extended foreplay is often a key element in enhancing sexual pleasure for both partners. Kind of touched on this above, but know how to please your partner. Fingering, kissing, oral, butt play, it's all a part of getting your girl curling her toes and gushing like Yellowstone. - Clitoral Stimulation:
Many women find clitoral stimulation to be a primary source of sexual pleasure. So, get to know your woman! Does she want spit, lube, a specific vibrator? Sometimes one or all can be too much and feel awkward, so know how to play around with all these sensitive places. - G-Spot Exploration:
The G-spot, located on the front vaginal wall, is often associated with female ejaculation. Some women find that stimulating the G-spot can lead to squirting. Use a lubricated finger or a sex toy designed for G-spot stimulation. Now, going back to part one, talk to your partner during this. Too much or not enough pressure can lead to a bad experience, so talk and more importantly look at her body and how it's reacting. This will go a long way to having a good powerwashing session. - Patience and Relaxation:
It's important to approach this exploration with patience and a relaxed mindset. It may take time and multiple attempts to achieve squirting, if it happens at all. So makes sure you're not supposed to hop on with your boys to play Call of Duty in 15 because this can be a marathon so make time for it. - Hydration:
Staying well-hydrated can sometimes contribute to an increased likelihood of female ejaculation. Encourage your partner to drink plenty of water before engaging in this, both for squirting and the fact that it could be a while and you're sweating like the little filthy piggy you are. - Post-Care:
If it happens, great on you! Now like any fun game, recap. Talk about what worked, what didn't and what you can improve. With this in mind you'll both be more confident in the future and have more fun with it.
Remember that every body is different, and not all women are capable of or interested in squirting. You can still give it a go and see how enjoyable it can be for the two of you, so let's get naked and start exploring! Either way you'll have a lot of fun.