If you're reading this, we bet you've been wondering how to explore some new, hidden desires. You've come to the right place. Bang! is gonna take you on a journey where we dive headfirst into the world of self-discovery and pleasure! Let's talk about ways to get in touch with your sexual desires, explore your body on your own, explore with a partner, and how to incorporate what you learn from the process into your sex life.
How to Get in Touch with Your Sexual Desires
First things first – let's get down to the dirty details of your desires. What makes you tick? What gets you hot and heavy? If you don't know yet, fear not! Here are a few ways to find out what you truly desire:
1. Masturbate with a purpose: When you touch yourself, pay attention to the sensations that make you feel good. Don't just rub one out – focus on the different parts of your body and experiment with various techniques.
2. Watch some porn: Watching adult content (cough cough, like the 140k+ videos you can find on Bang!) can help give you an idea of what turns you on. Just remember not to let it 100% define your desires – there are plenty of ways to get off without completely copying someone else's moves.
3. Read erotic literature: Sometimes the best way to figure out what you want is by reading about it. Pick up a book or check out some online stories that cater to your fantasies and see if any of them spark your interest. Who knows, you might learn something new about yourself!
Remember that a key step in all of these is to be comfortable with yourself and your journey of exploration. Feeling shame or embarrassment about your desires will do nothing but hold you back as you try to understand them better!
Ways to Explore Your Body on Your Own
Sometimes, self-love is the best kind of love. Here are a few ways you can explore your body solo:
1. Use toys: There's no shame in using vibrators, dildos, or any other gadget that makes you feel good. Experiment with different sizes and shapes to find what works best for you.
2. Try tantric techniques: Slow down and savor the moment by practicing mindful masturbation. Focus on your breath, take it slow, and explore every inch of your body. You might be surprised at how much more pleasure you can experience!
3. Spice things up with roleplay: If you're feeling adventurous, try acting out a fantasy while touching yourself. This could involve dressing up or even using different voices – whatever floats your boat.
Ways to Explore Your Body Alongside Your Partner
Exploring your desires together can be an intimate and exciting experience. Here are some ideas for getting down and dirty with a partner:
1. Communicate openly: Share your fantasies, desires, and boundaries with each other. Discuss what you want to try and set clear expectations so everyone feels comfortable.
2. Use toys together: Bring in some fun props like cock rings, vibrators, or even handcuffs (consensually, of course). Sharing new experiences can make things even hotter.
3. Try different positions: Switch up your usual routine and try out some new moves – you never know what might feel great! Plus, experimenting with various angles and depths can lead to newfound pleasure.
How to Incorporate What You've Learned About Your Body and Desires into Your Sex Life
Now that you've explored your body and desires, it's time to put that knowledge to good use! While the "how to explore your body with your partner" section might feel similar to this one, remember that exploring = being curious and learning about your body and desires, while incorporating = taking what you've learned and actually applying it to your sex life. Therefore, incorporating your desires into your sex life means that now that you know what you want, you can tie it into the type of sex that you're having. Found out that you're into bondage? Like the feeling of soft caresses on your body? Whatever makes you feel good- as long as you and your partner both consent, really dive into it now!
Well, there you have it – tips for exploring your body and desires that will leave you feeling satisfied and eager for more. Remember, self-discovery is a never-ending journey, so don't be afraid to keep experimenting and learning about yourself. And most importantly, always practice safe, consensual sex! Happy exploring and incorporating, my friends!
