Aug 2, 2023 3 min read

Learn how to fully relax for a well-deserved session of self-love with this guide!

Learn how to fully relax for a well-deserved session of self-love with this guide!

Self love is extremely important. You need be cool with yourself before you can go out there into the world and be cool to others. There's many ways to practice self love; affirmations, treating yourself, meditating, yadda yadda yadda. But who would we be here at Bang! if we didn't talk about our favorite form of self love?

That's right, this article is all about you- and your right hand, and how the two of you can create a magical evening of pleasure with lasting benefits. Did you know that masturbation reduces stress and tension, improves sleep, and boosts your mood? That's self love to the max! And today we're going to give you a step by step guide to fully relaxing, so that you can enjoy yourself the way nature intended.

Step 1: Clear your space and clear your mind

To get a good groove going, you can't have distractions everywhere. No piles of clothes thrown around the room, no phone ringing off the hook- take the time to clear your space to maximize the good vibes. So take a second, throw those t-shirts in a drawer, put your cell on do not disturb, lock the door, and focus on you time. Plus, when you're done you'll already have a clean space to look forward to. Win-win.

Step 2: Set the mood by preparing your space

Now that everything's tidied up and quiet, the next step you can take is to create the perfect atmosphere for yourself. This can mean whatever you want. Maybe you light a candle and turn off the overhead lights, maybe you play some relaxing music or grab yourself a cold drink for later. Whatever it may be, this is the time to create your ideal environment.

Step 3: Get some ambience going (brought to you by Bang.com)

Everything's ready, now it's time to pick a movie! Self pleasuring can be done under many circumstances, and some may argue that porn isn't always necessary, but we're firm believers that a good media can transform the jack off experience from "meh" to amazing! So, here's the part where you head over to Bang.com and check out any of our amazing videos (for your viewing pleasure). Need inspiration? Here's 3 videos from 3 different categories that are sure to get you hard and cumming.

Gia Derza stretches and fills her extra tight holes

Let's kick things off with some solo play, like we've been talking about! In this vid, a special gem from Bang! (since we don't often post solos in our Originals series), Gia Derza enjoys herself. She's feeling horny, so she plays with herself using her hand, and with multiple dildos and vibrators in all her holes! This video is a great example of not needing someone else to feel amazing pleasure, and it's great to help you get off too!

Emma Magnolia Gets Her Luscious Booty Fucked

This scene is brand new, just came out today! If you're looking for some boy/girl action to get yourself going, look no further than Emma Magnolia and Vince Karter. She's got a bangin' bod, he's got a massive cock, and together their chemistry is insane. Enjoy watching Emma get flipped around and fucked, squirting all the while.

Haley Spades first gangbang

Lastly, if you're looking for sometimes more intense, we have Haley Spades first gangbang, featuring her petite self and 4 guys! This scene is hot, as Haley sucks and fucks and gets all her holes filled by different cocks. Even though you're watching this scene on your own, imagination comes into play when you start thinking about how you'd love to be one of those four lucky guys. It's more than enough to make you bust! So now, we move onto step 4...

Step 4: Do the do (with you!)

We've walked you through all we can here, and what's left to do is... well... jack it! Be intentional with your movements and really sink into the relaxation, enjoying every stroke. When you're done, you'll feel incredible release and more relaxed than ever! We all need a little me time, huh? 😉

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